reconcilition and forgiveness.
remember, the bible says love others as I first loved you. Biblically speak reconciliation between man and God is initiated by God, therefore between man to man it should be initiated by the one who realises reconciliation is needed.
btw, if anyone knows of Brian (scion) who lives in Canada. He is a scumbag who violates the rights of other people. I cant go into detail, however, if I ever find out he did what he says he is going to, I will call the police myself.